Yesterday, as I was browsing a local forum on the
Internet, I came across the
website for a new business in our area. I'm not sure why the existence of this place bothers me but, it does.
Let's think about it...
I've never been a
"girly girl" and haven't really cared for them, either. Sure, I sometimes played with makeup and Barbie Dolls when I was a kid. But, I also spent a fair amount of time playing outside, riding my bike, playing video games and reading. It was rare that you saw me without a book on my person (still is) and even more so as I grew out of the doll phase. I understand the need of makeup and manicures and hairstylists for professional reasons but have no need for them beyond that (well, mostly, I do have moments when I like to look pretty just because). With the exception of a haircut, these are things I can and would do at home, for myself, and I can certainly leave the house without makeup or a fancy hairstyle (as long as I've had a shower...).
My parents taught me to be independent, strong and to think for myself. To see women who have to be propped up by their spouse, significant other or parents as an adult, really irks me. Or, worse yet, women pretend to be less intelligent than they are (whether to not intimidate some guy or whatever) and spending all their time worrying about their appearance. (Now, don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with being feminine and pretty sometimes even the most tomboyish of us feel the need to do that from time to time). I kind of feel like this place is teaching little girls how much their appearance matters and how important it is to be pretty above all other traits and I can't help but disagree with it.
Women have worked hard for the rights that we have now and being dependent on someone else or pretending to be stupid is not honoring those that have fought for you.
Also, the whole name of the place grates on my nerves. "It's All About Me." In my opinion, this statement is what is wrong with our society. People make decisions and take action based on what will benefit them the most. Not their family, their community or society as a whole, but themselves and this is causing such a huge rise in rudeness and hurtful behavior that it makes me angry to think about it. Parents, please don't teach your daughters to be pampered princesses that think only of themselves. Teach them how the decisions they make affect everyone in the world, not just them. Show her what an average child throws away per day and
then show her how landfills are piling up with trash that will just sit there for many years to come and calculate how much her trash alone will pile up for the next 50-60 years. Then, contrast that to the amount of waste that someone who recycles and composts sends to a landfill
and extrapolate that over the same period of time you used before. You both may be surprised with what you learn.
Some of my disgust also comes from the fact that Matthew and I are trying to simplify our own lifestyle and something like this is such a needless extravagance...a plain waste of money. And, yes, I understand that the parents have earned the money they are spending and have a right to spend it however they please but they are teaching their kids that it's okay to just throw away money on something so superficial and temporary.
How many books would the money spent on one of these packages buy the child? Which one will have a better and longer-lasting impact on the child?